When God created Eve for Adam, He forever
established the definition of marriage for humanity: one man, one woman,
joined together for as long as they both lived. Mankind quickly twisted
that standard by adding polygamy, concubines, and divorce. Now we're
seeing the unbiblical addition of marriages between two people of the
same gender.
But nowhere does the Bible limit the institution of marriage to
followers of God. Marriage is for every people of every nation and
religion. And God recognizes the legitimacy of marriages performed in
other religions. Christians are free to celebrate the biblical
expression of marriage no matter what the faith of the couple.
Often weddings act as a religious service. When this is the case,
believers need to have more discernment. If the guests of a wedding are
required to participate in an unbiblical religious act, the wedding
should be avoided. Alternately, the Christian could contact the couple
and see if a compromise could be made; it may even be possible to skip
the ceremony and attend the reception.
Another question that is more difficult to answer is, "Should a
Christian attend the wedding of a believer to a non-believer?" The Bible
tells us that we are not to be "unequally yoked," that is, to have a
close relationship with an unbeliever. Marriage would certainly apply.
For a Christian to marry a non-Christian, then, is usually sin. And for a
believer to attend the wedding could be considered endorsing and
encouraging that sin. It's a matter for serious prayer and spiritual
discernment. But once the wedding is completed, the believer should make
every effort to support the marriage. God recognizes the legitimacy of
even unwise marriages and calls believers to stay with their unbelieving
spouses (1 Corinthians 7:12-14).
There is nothing unbiblical about the marriage of a couple of a
non-Christian faith. To celebrate such a joyful occasion is certainly
within the rights of their Christian friends. The only questions arise
if the attendees of the wedding ceremony will be asked to actively
participate in a religious ceremony or act. If there's any doubt,
contact someone related to the ceremony and ask.
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